Listen. Understand. Build bridges.

North Dakota Stories

Behind every conversation is a person.
Behind every person is a story worth hearing.

Hear what it means to be LGBTQ with a connection to North Dakota—the hard moments, the role of faith, the people who showed love, and the hope that remains.

Explore the Stories ↓

Understanding begins with listening.

Building Bridges ND invites us to see our neighbors as people deserving of dignity, kindness, and respect. These experiences can help us understand the impact of our words and actions, even when we disagree about politics or theology.

Each story belongs to the person who lived it. Contributors speak for themselves; these voluntarily shared experiences are not a representative survey of North Dakota, Christians, or LGBTQ people. Together, different voices can help us learn what hurt, what helped, and how to love our neighbors well.

What we hope to hear

Room for the whole journey

Lived experience

Growing up, living, learning, and working in North Dakota. The moments that shaped a person's sense of safety and belonging.

Faith & belonging

Experiences with Christians, churches, and people outside the church. Space for faith, questions, pain, and connection.

Support & hope

The people who stayed, listened, and showed love. Words of encouragement for someone who feels alone today.

In their own words

Stories shared with permission

Some contributions may appear as short excerpts; others may be shared as longer stories. Contributors choose how their words may be used. We welcome accounts of hurt, support, faith, questions, and hope, without requiring a positive ending or a particular conclusion.

Read at your own pace. Future stories may discuss rejection, discrimination, or mental-health struggles. You are welcome to pause or skip anything that feels difficult.

The first stories are still ahead.

No stories have been published here yet. This space is ready for experiences shared with permission—stories that can help someone feel understood and someone else learn to listen.

Share Your Story

Your experience can help build a bridge.

If you are LGBTQ and have a connection to North Dakota, you are invited to share as much or as little as you wish. You can submit without providing your name, and you decide whether your words may be published.

Share Your Story